As a quick update, I'm seeing one of the backup T's I contacted for consultation today (she had a cancellation) and cancelled with my T for tomorrow (I told him I needed a little time to think, but to keep me on for Monday). So, we'll see...I did tell the T I'm seeing today a bit more about what I'm looking for, that it's consultation about my current therapist, and she said she'd be happy to help. Bonus: She's considerably cheaper than my T.