Been there...don't be afraid (well, be afraid but don't let it stop you) to change therapists; you already know you need something this person can't give you and that is OK. I hung in too long with someone who was not right for me, so keep going and if the next isn't right move on------the time to question yourself is if the pattern repeats too often...if no one is right. (even then, you may find another form of 'therapy' that does work for you or that talking only goes so far for you)...((((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))))))