As someone on my journey to find self it ultimately it is correct to remain hidden until a few set of factors are certain in your life. There is dangers that present and that is most important especially if the triggers are to remain and there is no escape in your environments. It is best to console those ones that want to remain hidden, validate when you can . I would definitely negotiate, so basically read and reread the section on emergencies and apply that to your life unless you got unlimited amounts of money because dissociation is wasteful.