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Old Feb 06, 2019, 01:13 PM
JaneTennison1 JaneTennison1 is offline
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I think it's a very nice gesture. I think I read somewhere that a red flag in therapy is when you have to keep paying for multiple extra sessions to fix what happened before.

I dont mean ruptures just if it is an ongoing pattern where he says something semi unkind that causes you to panic and then spend your money to "fix" what your t did. This seems more like he accidentally triggered something and was willing to work to fix it rather than lose you as a client.

I think as a one off it could be acceptable. I insist on paying t every time we have a call. One week she said as the call had been short (2 or 3 mins) and was a question about something that happened in t, she viewed it as an extn and there was no charge
I thought that was a thoughtful thing to do and she has clearly put some thought into what she felt was appropriate. So hear him out and see what you feel comfortable with.
Thanks for this!
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