Thanks everyone. I guess my fear would be that it’s just a boundary thing, but I guess it would help knowing why she was setting that boundary. Eye contact was a big thing in our therapy. She was always pretty intense about it too, as I know I’ve spoken about on here before. She’d try to make in group all the time, like I’d just look over and she’d be staring right at me wanting to “connect.” I’m embarrassed with how special that made me feel. It was intoxicating. I guess it feels traumatic to look for it, but she’s not willing to give it anymore. When she first ended things and we saw each other in the hall in passing, she’d make a point of maintaining eye contact even though our therapy had ended. That felt reassuring to me to know she was trying, but I was so upset at the time, I couldn’t look at her. And now I want it and it’s not there. Maybe she has moved on and she wants me to move on too.