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Originally Posted by healingme4me
^^   now it's more like classism. Country club sticks with country club and the heck with the rest of the universe.
Whatever happened to shared hobbies or interests? One needn't toss oneself at a man, indeed but sometimes it's necessary to give some indication that one is approachable. Even if to just say nice shoes... |
I see what you are saying. I guess I didn’t express myself correctly.
No I don’t advocate classism whatsoever and do not practice it in my life.
But if someone states “I want a man with money but I myself don’t make any” then how is it fair, what’s this about? Wanting to be a kept woman? If you want a man with money, you better make money too.
Now if OP said that she is looking for a good man with common hobbies, then it would be a different story. So I am not the one wuth classism ideas or what not. OP wants a good looking lawyer with money. I never in my life had such expectations about looks or money or specific career whatsoever. But if one have these unrealistic expectations, they better meet those expectations themselves
I agree about hobbies and interests and being approachable. One doesn’t need to flirt to be an interesting and approachable person