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Originally Posted by divine1966
I see what you are saying. I guess I didn’t express myself correctly.
No I don’t advocate classism whatsoever and do not practice it in my life.
But if someone states “I want a man with money but I myself don’t make any” then how is it fair, what’s this about? Wanting to be a kept woman? If you want a man with money, you better make money too.
Now if OP said that she is looking for a good man with common hobbies, then it would be a different story. So I am not the one wuth classism ideas or what not. OP wants a good looking lawyer with money. I never in my life had such expectations about looks or money or specific career whatsoever. But if one have these unrealistic expectations, they better meet those expectations themselves
I agree about hobbies and interests and being approachable. One doesn’t need to flirt to be an interesting and approachable person
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Makes sense. I see your point.
The OP could live humbly. Eleanor Roosevelt did
I know that the OP has mentioned entrepreneurship in another thread, work and careers perhaps? In having a home based income, that's something to strive to have pride in.
We do live in a society where first impressions do matter. So in leaving the home, I'd say that it's important to look like there's some self care in appearance. Maybe not Sunday Best clothing, but not undone either.
There's another post in here about giving second looks at someone who might not fit the criteria because you don't know how they could grow from inspiration or maybe they are intellectual but college wasn't a possibility? I know of many like that, granted now married and gladly sending their kids off to college loan free or lightest loans. People I grew up with.
Why the fixation on lawyers? They have the highest percentage of addiction struggles. Was noted in a local newspaper article- The Boston Globe, I think a year or so ago. Not to paint the field with the broadest of brushes, just pointing out a fact.