Neighbours can be really annoying, xmascarol. I'm so sorry you have to put up with them. They sound really obsessive. I'd suggest to just tell them that you want to be left alone, since they don't seem to understand this is bothering you. It may create more conflict, perhaps. But I think you have every right to stand up for yourself. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you