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Old Feb 07, 2019, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by eskielover View Post
magnets attract ANYTHING that is metal. As a woman I would not want to be a flirt & attract anything that is a man. I prefer to be selective & I want to know whether personalities even come close to matching before I would even bother wasting my time on even considering a serious relationship with a guy.

Lol....I have had a lot of interfaces with different lawyers lately. The good ones I have met due to need of quality lawyers have all been so arrogant. Yea, want those kind handling my case but I sure wouldn't want a marriage relationship with them. There is so much more than career & looks & money. All that is superficial when it comes to making a relationship work.

I don't think a magnet is a good analogy for flirting at all. As stated magnets attract all metal in the vicinity but is flirting like that and if it is I would contend the person flirting is really just flaunting themselves for all to see but that's not what I think it is. it should be and almost always is something that's more targeted ... It's silly to think that a flirting woman in a room would be pulling in all the surrounding men like a magnet which is what that implies lol. Besides flirting is not always effective and the targeted person has - choice to pay attention or ignore, not so with a piece of metal. the object is compelled to be drawn to the magnet by the laws of physics or whatever laws it is that determine magnetic attraction.