I'm so sorry, Buffy72 I don't know if you should stay friends with him. I think the fact that he's still married but also chasing other woman is a red flag and that you should be very careful about it. That's just my opinion, though. The final decision is up to you. You could decide to stay friends with him, but if you notice any behavior that you find uncomfortable, I think you should stay away from him as much as you can. Just be careful. I'm so sorry, I know it's hard when things like this happen. Remember that we're here for you. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you