In case anyone is interested it was an excuse for contact!

That's not to say a part genuinely wanted to say thank you etc but the push was coming from the 10 yr old who will conive to get his aims.

But I talked to the part that wanted to say thank you etc and we cane to the conclusion that while it was a good thing it was a better thing not to detail little x's 'progress' and the very reasons that enabled him.to act in the way he did would also enable him to be ok with a later telling.

Prob not very clear here. Took hours of thought. But basically as I came to that conclusion the 10 yr old was like damm! Now I'll have to find another way... So am on my guard.