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Old Feb 07, 2019, 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Nobody said flirting is the only way for a woman to attract a man.

Think about a magnet which literally attracts something. Why does it attract? Doesn’t this apply to the laws of human attraction as well?

FYI- I am a highly intelligent, underachieving woman who married a highly intelligent, highly achieving man.
Well you did say that your gut answer to how to get a man is “flirt”. So just going by what you said.

I understand you married successful man but your marriage has been rough and rocky and causing you mental anguish and PTSD primarily you mentioned due to many fundamental differences. You even said there were major differences and clashes between you two before you even married. So what attracted him to you and vice versa? Was it flirting? Just attraction? Or was it something else? Common interests? Common values? Compatibility?