There is no one standard as to what therapy is supposed to feel like. It depends on so many factors - the therapist's orientation and style, what clients bring to the table etc.

It is not clear what her theoretical orientation is but I would suggest addressing the sexuality issue directly with her. Again. As a gentle reminder for her to get her act together and focus on the specific issue you need help with.

I know you say it is an uncomfortable topic for you and it took a lot to broach the topic - but do you feel you can try again?

IF she still does not acknowledge your need, then you might be better off with a therapist who is more solution-focused. There is no point wasting time (and money) in discussing general issues when that is not what you want to work on.