I think it's very good for you that you started this thread. Sharing details about this kind of abuse is extremely difficult. Perhaps sharing here and getting validation may be beneficial and therapeutic for you in some ways. Although the majority of replies may be "below your level" I believe in every thread you could possibly find sone fresh and unexpected point of view. Or at least a positive interaction with others who decide to reply without any kind of personal profit.
I hope you stay on the forum.