I'm so sorry, kes8529 I agree with all the others. I'm not sure continuing this relationship is a good idea. Yes, he may change, but that will take a lot of time, and it's not even sure whether he will truly change or not. Are you willing to wait that long? That's just my opinion though. The final decision is up to you. Whathever you decide, be careful. Stay safe and take care of yourself. Remember that we're here for you to support you. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you