it was late this morning when I wrote that and I just got out of a 11-12 hour drive last night,so now I see your point, let me rephrase

what I ment is sometimes this is not the place to speak about truth or reality, since it can be triggering to some, and its better they hear what they need to hear , which is not the truth or reality sometimes IMO

far as the house, my wife loves it

but I am ready to break ground on a new one on the back acre, she'll love it as well when I am done, construction is something I just love to do