I did this recently to someone. She was already on a second chance from me and texted me with some hurtful things that belittled my problems and indicated that only she had real problems. I am dealing with a lot right now and told her I couldn't do this right now She responded with a few faux apologies - she had a fever, maybe the timing or the wording wasn't right. She never apologized for the actual message.
I didn't respond and after a message where she said I was hurting her feelings (after she showed no concern for mine) I blocked her number and also blocked her on social media.
It's been a few weeks and I feel like a weight is off me. I see now she is a negative person and always seems to be on the outs with someone. I guess it was my turn. And, of course, the way she portrays it, she is always the victim.
It's unfortunate, but I think sometimes it's the right thing to do.
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