Hello,

I've been married for 8 years, in those 8 years dealt with him sneaking around to chat with other women, contacting his ex and lying. I was 100% honest when I said my vows and have stayed, I'm still in love with him. My head and heart are in different places, mentally I've know he hasn't loved me in a really long time (if ever) but my heart is still fully in my marriage and my husband.
I know by staying I'm hurting daily cause our marriage is more like a roommate situation. He only shows affection when he is trying to get laid then instantly falls asleep. It's clear that my heart will continue to be broken little by little as in the past if i stay but how do you change the way you feel about someone?! Venting a little helped but would greatly appreciate any advice!

Thanks