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Old Feb 08, 2019, 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted by CepheidVariable View Post
I'm sorry you've had that experience of it being used as a weapon. It sounds terrible.
I guess it was only one time so I'm probably being a wuss. No matter how much I wanted touch or physical affection, often it just felt unnatural and wasn't comfortable with it too, so maybe I'm being a hypocrite. It seems like it has to be an all or nothing thing.

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Originally Posted by KnitChick View Post
You are making a lot of sense to me too. Having no one to be held by is a very painful feeling. Especially when you need it and no one's there.

I've been there too.
I agree. I often sleep with a stuffed animal so I'm not alone. I know I've mentioned that I don't always want/like touch, but I think it's because it's so rare that it feels unnatural and wrong when it happens. And it causes attachment which is the worst thing to happen.
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