I know what you mean, Lady. I dated a guy before my current boyfriend - and when it came time to telling him about personal things, I told him about my two relationships that I had had with women (and that if I were on the market, then I'm open to people - not only men - who I feel a connection with). He didn't take it well at all and in fact, that made ME want to break up with him, which I then did. It taught me a lesson about what kind of person I want to have a relationship with. If they can't accept my past and if we don't share the same basic beliefs (one of mine being that none of us are in the position to judge others), then it's not the right relationship for me.