When I freeze up T starts by asking about what I am feeling and the intensity of the feeling. If that doesn’t work he will usually ask something of me that makes me move. We haven’t had any times yet where I have frozen because he did something that broke trust, just things I haven’t trusted him enough to try yet. He has asked me to tell him if he ever does something to break trust between us. I told him he would know because I would call him “Sir” or by his last name. I don’t know how he would do repairitive work but I am sure he would be very gentle and that he would ask what I needed and... he would make me move.
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There’s been many a crooked path
that has landed me here
Tired, broken and wearing rags
Wild eyed with fear
-Blackmoores Night
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