I send my T pics of me doing things, on vacation, etc, so he doesn't really have a choice as to whether he gets them or not lol. And I know he looks at them, because four months later he'll make an off-hand comment about them.

He told me last summer to send him a friend request on facebook, so I did, but he hasn't actually accepted it yet. However, he goes on like twice a year - I think he's literally posted twice in the past year. I would love him to see my facebook...but he also sees a lot of me outside of therapy because of school and church and stuff.