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Maybe just believe him?

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Hmmmmmm. I'll have to think about that one, Sunny. I'll try.

He said that he felt like he wasn't helping me and that he wanted someone to come in for a different perspective. I think we are having so much difficulty because of the nature of the problem. I love him so much (not a romantic kind) and have expressed that to him. I know it is because of my past with my father who is now deceased. So, when I ask him if he loves me he has to say that in order to help me he has to remain detached. While I cognitively understand that, emotionally it makes me a wreck. I can't even begin to use my thoughts to control my emotions on this issue because they are mega intese. So, I guess he doesn't want me to keep coming in and feeling rejected but doesn't know what to do.

Please realize that I KNOW our therapists can't be our friend, blah blah and so on. I just DON'T feel it.

She may be there at our session tomorrow, but I'm not sure. It will be interesting, though. I'll keep you updated.