Pingu, well, I'm female but I think your thinking about sex frequently and wanting to have it frequently is very normal. I don't think your problem is your sex drive! I think a more important issue for you is that you have trouble forming relationships with the opposite sex due to shyness, awkwardness, whatever... Could you take a course to help with that? "Overcoming Shyness", or "Talking to the Opposite Sex", or something like that? I see this type of course offered frequently in my city. There you can meet other shy people and sometimes find "friends" there. Or you could try working with a therapist on your shyness and forming relationships? Maybe you are not a therapy guy, but hey, if it works, wouldn't it be worth it?

Best of luck....