Sol, Just wanted to tell you that I TOTALLY understand what you mean when you say you "know" something but you don't "feel" it. There is a huge difference.
Maybe he thinks that having a female perspective might help because it is the "love" feelings you are dealing with?

It doesn't sound like he wants to stop seeing you. It sounds like he wants to make sure that he is seeing the "whole" picture. I would rather have a t. who is open to other thoughts and/or ideas than one who felt they knew everything. Just a thought.
tulips