I had a T I worked with for 4 years and HATED her. I was giving what little I had and getting nowhere. She was giving 110% of what she had and even took extra trainings and things to try and make it work. Eventually we terminated and I started working with someone else. Then sold T and I started running into eachother at church. We had known we both attended the same church but it was big enough we never ran into eachother. She has been an amaizing mentor and friend for over 20 years now! Last time we were together we were talking about old times... and I realized and shared with her... that if we could magically go back to her old office (she had since retired) I would still hate her and mistrust her as much as ever. I just could not connect with her as a therapist... even though she means the world to me years later as a friend. And, yes, we both agree that it is strange but neither of us did anything wrong.