I'm so sorry you're struggling, Alwaysme0 It sounds like you're dealing with a lot right now. Not only your marriage and kids, but even your own mother. That's a lot to go through. I'm so sorry. Please remember that you need to take care of yourself as well. You can't fully help others if you're not feeling too well yourself. As for your marriage, I agree with what all the others have already wisely said. I'd suggest to seriously talk to your husband about this and see how it goes from there. Maybe that could help. You could try couple counselling if he's willing to. If he refuses to listen to you or acknowledge that there's a problem, I think you need to seriously reconsider your relationship with this man. It's not fair that you're being treated like this. You deserve much better in my opinion. I hope things will get better soon. Try to think about your marriage while you help your mother. I hope she will get better soon. That must be very tough both for you and for her. I'm so sorry, I know it's hard. Please don't give up. Take it one step at the time. Take baby steps. Try to hang on. You can do this! You're strong, I know that. I believe in you. Is there anything we can do to help you? Please let us know. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to vent here as much as you want. We'll listen to what you have to say. We care about you. Keep writing here if it helps. I'm here for you as well if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this