I'm so sorry you're struggling, seriouslyfunny I agree he has some issues he needs to work on. How is couple counselling going? Are you seeing any improvements in his behavior? To be honest, I think individual therapy would be more appropriate for him, since he's clearly the one that needs to work on himself the most. Would he be willing to do that? I'd suggest to seriously talk to him about this and see how it goes. Hopefully he'll understand and accept to go to therapy. Make him understand that this is important. If he refuses to listen or to acknowledge that there's a problem, I think you seriously need to reconsider your relationship with that man. I'm so sorry, I know it's hard when this happens. Communication is an important part in every relationship, romantic or not, so if that doesn't happen I'm not sure how this is going to last. I hope things will get better soon. Is there anything we can do to help you? Please let us know. I hope you'll feel better soon. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this