Yes hubby and I have gone to marriage counseling. We went for over a year early in our marriage and it did help a lot. We went again last year and I just gave up and didn’t want to schedule any more appointments. The counselor kept suggesting things for hubby and I to go do together and just wasn’t getting it that hubby wants to be at home, alone and doesn’t want to be around anybody. I didn’t see the point of trying to force him into doing anything he doesn’t want to do. I tried it for years. In all honesty, he doesn’t force me to do anything I don’t want to do so I have been trying to accept and make the best of things.