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Originally Posted by divine1966
Well you did say that your gut answer to how to get a man is “flirt”. So just going by what you said.
I understand you married successful man but your marriage has been rough and rocky and causing you mental anguish and PTSD primarily you mentioned due to many fundamental differences. You even said there were major differences and clashes between you two before you even married. So what attracted him to you and vice versa? Was it flirting? Just attraction? Or was it something else? Common interests? Common values? Compatibility?
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I don't like to criticize as you typically have great insight and well thought out answers but it seems to me that it's an oversimplification of stating that flirting is a way to get a man's attention.
What I mean is, at least in my case, I am talking about gaining the attention of someone (male or female, it works both ways). That is in no way, my stating that it's the way to get a mate, find a long term partner or a husband or wife.
The way I understood the question was just that, attracting a male. Finding out if they are a match, have common interests and values comes after you've made the connection which starts with gaining their attention and attraction.
That's just my take.