I don't like to criticize as you typically have great insight and well thought out answers but it seems to me that it's an oversimplification of stating that flirting is a way to get a man's attention.

What I mean is, at least in my case, I am talking about gaining the attention of someone (male or female, it works both ways). That is in no way, my stating that it's the way to get a mate, find a long term partner or a husband or wife.

The way I understood the question was just that, attracting a male. Finding out if they are a match, have common interests and values comes after you've made the connection which starts with gaining their attention and attraction.

That's just my take.