I'm not a pastor's wife either - or a Christian for that matter - but I hope 2Hope doesn't feel her thread is derailed. It looks like we don't have any other pastor wives here, but there are plenty of us here to support you in any way we can.

I'm very familiar with the Christian way and I think I have a pretty good understanding of the pressures you face as a pastor's wife. Feel free to use us as your Sanctuary.