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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
Hank:
I do not see why you felt the need to rekindle this or make an apology. He sounds toxic and doesnt have your best interests at heart. It doesnt matter what you think you did, this right here is your red flag.
The friend of Hanks':
So hank who tries to get you to end a relationship manages to pick a friend who wants him to leave his relationship... I mean do you see the pattern? Neither of these people are good. And getting his friend involved I feel was unnecessary because its just opening yourself up to more toxicity.
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Hey thanks for your reply I really appreciate it and taking your time to read it.
I felt like I had to apologize because I thought it was my BPD. Because I cut everyone off when I'm upset with them. I thought it was all.my fault. But I learnt after couple days this guy got issues and liked to project a lot of what he feels on to me. But thank you saying what you said. I guess I just wanted to check with some people to see yeah Hank what he said wasnt nice at all.