I don’t see how he played you. He appeared not that interested from the get go. And you knew it. He just continued to be not that interested. Sleeping with him didn’t change that and it never does. When something is off then it’s just off. Neither of you were that into each other.

As about the way it all ended some of it just didn’t make sense. You were the one constantly excessively contacting him then you messaged him not to contact you but he wasn’t contacting you, you were.

Now I understand it hurts. But rebound relationships rarely work. I see from your previous threads that you go from one bad relationship to another very quickly and men treated you bad yet you wanted to be with them, this last one didn’t treat you bad but still was disinterested.

I’d recommend to take time to heal from these experiences and perhaps see a therapist to figure out why you are attracted to these men who treat you poorly or are indifferent and what could be done to break bad patterns and find healthier ways to handle romantic encounters. Good luck