My husband and I found a great woman lawyer who is also a CPA. Makes things really nice.

But I would maybe see an accountant or someone like that and get an "idea" of how things should fall then talk to a lawyer about how to get it in writing that sticks.

For my husband's divorce, he figured out what he wanted. Each party has their own lawyer pretty much. Your husband needs to find one for his own interests if you're actually going to divorce him. I don't think you can divide things up and then have a lawyer say, "this is how it will be, the way eskielover decided and not-to-bright husband agreed" :-)