A couple snippets from today....
T: ...your observation--I was going to say complaint...
Me: Oh, you can say complaint. I was totally complaining.
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Me: I know the world is not actually like this, and that this is not going to happen in real life, but I feel like I have cried and grieved over this enough that there shouldn't be any left. I should be all done.
AND (I could see her getting ready to say something therapist-y)...you have to agree with me right now, so for just a minute I can pretend that's how it actually works.
T: (laughs) That's exactly how it works. The bucket should be empty, shouldn't it.
It was actually a lovely session, for the most part, challenging, one of those where I look back and think, "How did we cover all of that in an hour?"
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Since you cannot do good to all, you are to pay special attention to those who, by accidents of time, or place, or circumstance, are brought into closer connection with you. (St. Augustine)
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