FaceBook and this is most of my socialization besides my husband. On FaceBook, most of my friends are from groups I am a member of - so really banning them resolves nothing bc its like watching a conversation with part of it missing.. that frustrates me more at times, lol. Things like:
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Person 1: Yea, my husband and I were at my friend's house, and my husband said some things I felt were inappropriate. He didn't see it that way, and she didn't seem to catch on to it - but it still bothers me. How should I handle it?

Person 2: Well, I would sit him down and talk with Him and explain why it bothers you.

Person 2: I didn't say that did I? I don't know why you think I am even hinting at that.

Person 1: I'm sure she didn't mean it that way, can we just get back to my issue please?

Person 2: Please stop! Even she knows I did not mean it that way. I only told her to talk to him.
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That type of thing aggravates me - to not be able to try to help calm a situation. Does that make sense?

So, banning a group member is something I only do under the case of personal verbal abuse. Banning someone on my page, however, if they are not a member of a group, can be for starting issued with other friends and refusing to quit after I have tried other things (like removing comments ), or trying to control what I post/say on my own page after I warn a couple times - as well as abuse or stalking.

I do have rules and boundaries. It's just that I also want some friends who allow more communication than the hi/bye/how ya doing/etc type thing. I want to know it's ok to actually "speak". When I do - if I disagree with them or have a "negative emotion" (ie not happy), they say "is your mh bothering you?" Umm no .. I am allowed to think for myself and to have true emotions without it meaning I am unhealthy. It bothers me. Bothers me bad. Just tired of it.