You are so kidding! Expensive vacation when neither of you is securely in work? He is irresponsible and immature, and I'm happy that you aren't being sucked in by this. When you look back on this from a few years time and your own life is stable, you will congratulate yourself that you read the signals and separated.
If he's this childish about a holiday, just imagine what he would be like in the for better or worse circumstances of a long-term partnership - if either of you became ill for example.
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*"Fierce <-> Reality"*
oh god I am struggling today, help me to remember how to stay connected and human!
remember: the nut shell against human predators and my own fear!
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