I found my current fiance naturally and without even looking, which is what many people will say can happen very easily.

I had just broken up with someone, but I was OK and happy to be single. I was doing my thing, out for music on my own.

We had met a few months before through a mutual love of local music, and he approached me to talk. We talked, and I didn't think anything of it at the time. He thought I didn't like him, so he avoided me for the next few months. I noticed this.

Then, three months later, at another local music event, I bumped into him, and he got up the courage to approach me again. He apologized for ignoring me, he told me that he had liked me and thought I wasn't interested, and then he asked me out to dinner. I was out alone at the time, enjoying the music and enjoying being out on my own, but I said yes because I thought it was very endearing. I wasn't even looking to meet someone.

Lo and hehold, after that we started dating. Now a year later we're planning our wedding.

People often say it happens when you least expect it. People also advise to just do your own thing, pursue what you enjoy doing the most, and you will naturally meet people that way. This is exactly how it happened for me.