Lying that you are staying wuth a friend, isn’t that horrible. Is she is a child? If not, then what do you care where she is staying? She possibly spent a night with a man but didn’t feel she needed to disclose, so she said she stayed with a friend. One shouldn’t lie where they stay to their spouse but no one needs to disclose their whereabouts to their brothers. I get along with my brother but I dint feel I need to report to him where I spend a night. What’s the big deal

No one is obligated to lend you anything or buy you presents. Its just how it is