It seems some personal introspection by many of us is needed. How honest is each person with him/herself about how loaded and underhanded their own rhetoric is when describing others? Often the people claiming ill-treatment use that same treatment they claim to be victim of on the very people they have a gripe with. What is the old saying? Physician heal thyself. We can't fix how others treat us if we don't take those steps first in our treatment of others, but that means we cannot turn a blind eye to ourselves.