The problem is, you gotta be willing (open minded) to other things and without that, it will always be talking in circles. I have been torn down many times here since I was a member and I'm still here, still reading countless posts, sharing hugs/thanks and offering support if I can find the words... but yet, still get harassed and reported often. I'm unsure if this is fixable

and miss bella, as I don't wanna derail the other thread.. really "countless times a day"? LOL That's very drastic for asking for support. Maybe we could start with honesty instead of throwing out things like that?