My friend who is EXHAUSTED from working her behind off to support her large family forgot to take her makeup bag to work one day, and her co-workers gossiped about whether she was on drugs. I fear I look equally exhausted and I sometimes do get "looks" from people. I don't care about looking pretty but want to avoid looking "unkempt." Your looks does make a difference in social interactions even if you don't want to be judged for it because it is your "heart" that really matters.