Is it truly hate or do you just see reality for what it is. I don't hate men... but I don't necessarily want to head down the romantic road any longer. I just see it as a zero net gain because, what I am looking for, a kind man that will love and worship me without straying -- forever. -- does not exist. I do feel secret contempt for women who live their lives always searching for the next guy who will treat them bad and then try to act superior to me.

I don't hate men, I feel in a way they have been corrupted and ruined in a way that is pushing the two sexes apart. So they can stay over in their corner and I will stay in mine. I feel sometimes as bad for them as me. Guys truly do have a much higher sex drive and there is very little good outlet for that. So guys really have no choice, it is survival.

My hate is the way society lies to itself and expects me to play along and also, suffer so they can continue to have this lie. This is the hate and contempt I feel.

My only advice is that I found the most kind and non messed up men I ever met when I was young. They hadn't had a chance to be messed up yet.

I am not sure you do have an issue. This may simply be something you will have to deal with for the rest of your life. I know I did. I have grown immune to it. I simply don't care any more.