for me... a man is someone.. that hugs.. when hugs are needed... or just unexpectantly..
nuzzles... the back of my neck and makes me feel special, warm.. and loved...

"huffs and puffs" around the house... lol until I "notice" something is "wrong"... so I have a "clue"...

shares.. some of my loves with me.. of nature.. and animals.. but has some loves that are different than my own so I might also share those with him...

is independent... and allows me to be independent...

knows...that... I will always listen.. so if he is "scared, sad, angry".... he knows I will "hear" him... may be thru body language.. or spoken... but... expressed in some way.. shape.. or form...

respectful... of himself... and of me.... meaning... he would never even dream of telling me "you are stupid"...

one that opens doors... and grabs my arm.. when we are walking..

ahhhhhhh.. the list could go on forever...