Thank you all for your posts! Since then I found out he was indeed dating other people his best friend let me know because he thought I deserved better. I just want to make clear that I was not harassing him with calls or messages. We used to communicate daily several times a day and he would always sent a message in the morning before he went to work. All along he was the one making our (friendship or whatever you want to call it) more serious since the first time we met in person (we met online) as he started saying that he had feelings for me and he loved me. I never lied to him, we just never talked about our previous relationship, other than how long ago we had broken up. I did said that I was hurt badly in my previous relationship and didn’t want to get hurt again. I don’t think there was nothing wrong with saying that in able to continue being involved with me he needed to stop dating other women, that was the Monday after the Saturday that I saw him with in the bar and he later assured me he was just friends with. I agree that I used him to numb my feelings from my ex. The day I told him that I didn’t want to continue communicating, I replied to his good morning message, I replied, he saw and ignored my message. I called because I saw he was online on whatsapp, he also ignored my call. I only sent 2 messages and left 1 voice message. I blocked him on whatsapp and he contacted through text saying his cellphone had been charging while he was on break. Whatsapp is not like messenger that will continue showing you’re active and even messenger will at some time show you inactive. In conclusion I need to stay alone while I still think and have feelings about my ex, you could put a bandage over a cut to make it stop bleeding but if you go and mess up with the cut you will make it bleed again...