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Old Feb 18, 2019, 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
Is she really close with your uncle and aunt to where she would be able to overlook or avoid addressing how they treat you?


Could you re-explain this? I do not understand.


]quote]One of the uncle's didn't even buy me a present(she's seen it) but doesn't question his integrity, they are not even helping me out in anyway and my cousin did something and she says "you should see the doctor" when I gave her full proof of it.
Are you upset because your sister got a present and you did not? Do you think they should buy you a present or have they in the past? Are they supposed to help you out? In what ways?

Is it possible that she doesnt have the same experiences with your aunt and uncle so its hard for her to see your issues?


Do you mean she ignored you while in the same room? Or do you mean she just didnt see you anymore? Being angry and talking angry isnt always abuse. Have you ever asked her why?

I have to ask.. why talk to her? Why deal with her?

Why do you care if she is or isnt going to see a friend in the city or whether she actually has a friend in the city?


Well maybe she doesnt want you to borrow her things and rather than say no, she just says she doesnt know where something is.
How?


What makes you say this? I know I asked a lot of questions but I wanted to know some context to understand better.[/QUOTE]

That is great advice!