Rechu,

I am glad this helped to clarify your situation with this person!

She is most certainly toxic for you!!!

She sounds horrid..... NOT someone who is a good friend -- the opposite. DRAINING for sure. And maddening!! All of what you describe would personally enrage me --- which is what toxic people end up doing.

This is why I wanted to post this thread -- to help people identify toxic people when they come across them.

GOOD for you for cutting ties with her and for taking care of your own needs and yourself. It is not selfish to do so, and never feel badly for cutting out a toxic person from your life. It's necessary and vital for our own peace of mind and happiness.

Cheers to you. (((Hugs)))