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Originally Posted by Betrayed92
I'm not sure if I could ever be friends with her. Lately my ex husbands girlfriend has been try to be my friend but I'm not sure if I could ever be friends with her because 1. There is apart of me that still holds it against her that she was part of the reason that my marriage ended, and 2. I don't feel like I can trust her because of that. I'm trying to decide if I should tell her that I don't want to be friends but I do want to be civil with her, or if I should try harder to get over my negative feelings over her so I can have her as a friend. I could really use any advice that anyone can give me.
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The questions are: Do you want her as a friend? What could you get out of having her as a friend? Is your ex husband still with this woman? Personally I think you are totally justified and right about being wary of having her as a friend. What is she thinking? Does she really think you could trust her after she was the cause of your marriage breakup? I would be looking for an ulterior motive.. I mean it just shows how obtuse she can be for not even thinking of how you would feel being friends with her. Is she even sorry? If she is she should know that this only rubs salt in old wounds. I would not do it. Its a recipe for disaster IMO.
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