[QUOTE=raging vortex;6440751]honestly I'm not quite sure how to handle this

a while ago we got a new alter who seemed quiet and as the days progressed, she wants to become more and more involved with coming out and doing things

the problem is that she won't tell us why she wants to come out, and she won't tell us what her intentions are

When this happens for us, we make a deal to only be out in therapy sessions....until others get to know her. Course we also want T's evaluation too.